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Victorian Wedding: A Garden Celebration In The Afternoon

Serve up some crumpets, tea, and old world charm with this Victorian wedding garden theme. Here's an interesting little tidbit: did you know that before 1880, a couple was required by law to have a morning wedding ceremony? Well we're bending the rules a bit, and planning your outdoor vintage wedding for the afternoon instead.



Victorian House With Garden - Photo: www.morguefile.com

Wedding Colors

Cream, blue, yellow. Also consider terracotta, ecru and pastel greens.

Wedding Attire

For any of the outfits, you may also want to include Victorian capes, cameo brooch at the neck, lace hankies, small beaded purses and/or bustles on the dresses.

  • Bride:
    • Choose an off white or white Victorian bridal gown with a high-neck lace collar, long sleeves, lace cuffs. Add a Victorian-style wide-brimmed hat which was usually trimmed with ribbon and flowers; a short veil; white lace gloves; and ankle boots. Carry a matching parasol or a bouquet of pastel colored roses.

  • Bridesmaids:
    • Victorian pinafores, ankle boots, lace gloves. Put hair up and entwine with ribbons. Carry parasols, baskets with summer flowers, or tussie mussies with small flower bouquets.

  • Groom:
    • How you dress today for a Victorian wedding will be a matter of preference. Styles changed rapidly for men over the course of a few years. One thing that didn't change...the black top hat was worn throughout the entire period. Here are some suggestions on what you might want to consider:

      • In the early part of the Victorian era, the frock coat was popular in either blue or a wine/plum color. Waistcoats were white with lavender colored trousers and gloves.

      • By the mid-Victorian period, frock coats were out of style and men were wearing morning coats. Black and paisley vests were popular with dark gray trousers, folded cravat, and lavender colored gloves stitched in black.

      • Guess what was back in style by 1899? You guessed it...the frock coat. Pair it with a light-colored waistcoat, dark tie, gray striped cashmere trousers, patent-leather button boots and pale tan kid gloves.

      • Add a walking cane to complete the whole ensemble.

  • Groomsmen:
    • Keep the style the same as the groom.

    If you're interested, you can learn more about Victorian wedding customs and what your attendant's duties to the bride and groom entailed.

    Wedding Invitations

    • Ivory colored stationary with images of lace and calligraphy type fonts. Make sure the first letter of a line is very ornate. Invitations were engraved.

    • Use images of a horse-drawn carriage, Victorian fan, and/or dainty flowered tea cup and saucer.

    • If making your own, consider using Victorian stickers as decoration on your invitations.

    Victorian Garden Wedding Locations

    Preferably a garden setting such as a large backyard, park or pavilion area. If you can't have it outside, choose a Victorian style mansion, Inn, or church.

    Wedding Favors

    • Rose or lavender scented cameo soaps.

    • Small bottles of scented oils such as rose, lavender, lilac, jasmine. Add personal labels to the bottles.

    • Make or buy cameo chocolates and package in small, heart-shaped or round flower-printed boxes. Tie with lace and ribbons.

    • Give your guest Victorian fans or Victorian style bookmarks.

    • Fill inexpensive decorative teacups with mints or Jordan Almonds.

    Ideas For Victorian Wedding Decorations

    • In a garden setting be sure to set up a tent marquee to offer shade on a hot, sunny day; and as cover in case the weather turns to rain. Hang baskets of trailing flowers and vines from the poles.

    • Decorate the area with pastel colored streamers and garlands of ivy vines.

    • Place planters around the area filled with flowers.

    • Tie large bows on the backs of chairs with ribbon streamers.

    • Use silver and/or flowered china serving dishes.

    Table Decor and Centerpieces

    • Set up tables so they are cozy and personal, no more than 6 people per table (use round tables). Cover with white or pastel colored tablecloths.

    • Use linen napkins with decorated wooden napkin holders at each setting.

    • Fill a galvanized watering can with fresh summer flowers as a centerpiece.

    • Scatter rose petals around table.

    Victorian Wedding Flower Selections

    Brides were very careful in choosing their flowers for their weddings. They chose flowers with specific meanings. Some of the popular flowers were: roses (check meanings for each color), lilies, gardenias, stephanotis sprigs, pansies, hyacinths, baby's breath and orange blossoms. Bouquets were small nosegays (tussie mussies), which are small, plump bouquets of flowers.

    Wedding Cake

    The Victorian wedding cake was often a fruit cake with rolled fondant icing or white layers. You may want to skip the fruitcake and go with a white or yellow cake with the fondant icing. The bride also had a sweet white-layer cake with tiny charms baked into it, for her bridesmaids.

    The charms each held a meaning for the bridesmaid who received it in her slice of cake. Some of the charms and meanings were: ring (next to marry), horseshoe (good luck), cloves (good luck), anchor (adventure), thimble (old maid), and fleur-de-lis (love will flower).

    Menu

    As this is an afternoon garden wedding, set up it up as a buffet and keep it light and simple. Some food ideas are: finger sandwiches (cucumber, tuna, salmon, egg, watercress), scones with jam or lemon curd and clotted cream, biscuits, miniature pastries, petit fours, French bread, real butter, Victorian kisses (meringue cookies), canapés, crumpets, shortbread cookies, fruit tarts, cheesecake, brownies, fresh fruit, chocolates, lemonade, champagne, claret wines, and a variety of teas. Don't forget to have "lumps" of sugar and lemon juice for the tea.

    Entertainment During a Victorian Wedding

    • Hire a string quartet, harpist, violinist or pianist.

    • Dances that were popular during this era were: reels, waltzes and quadrilles.

    • Music was usually by: Tchaikovsky, Handel, Ravel, Debussy, Mozart, Beethoven, Mendelssohn, Brahms, and Bach.

    • If outside in a large area, play croquet, which was a very popular game at this time.

    • If possible, get your hands on a bicycle-built-for-two and have fun trying to ride it.

    • Victorian parlor games will also keep your guests entertained. Try Blindman's Bluff, Charades, and Hunt the Slipper.

    Other Suggestions

    Some movies to watch to get a better idea of the Victorian age:

    Related Articles:
    Victorian Wedding Customs: Your Attendants and Their Duties
    Victorian Wedding Traditions and Superstitions

    Victorian Wedding: A Garden Celebration In The Afternoon. © 2004-2007, Rose Smith.




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